Why
is it so important for health and wellness professionals to develop an integral
perspective of psychological, spiritual, and physical wellbeing? To me, the answer to this question is quite
simple. Health and wellness
professionals must continually work to develop their psychological, spiritual,
and physical wellbeing for a number of reasons.
The first reason that comes to mind is that as a health and wellness
professional, people look to me as some sort of example and/or mentor. In other words, I must lead by example. For instance, how can I give advice on
physical fitness, if I don’t exercise?
Furthermore, how valuable can my advice be perceived if I obviously do
not practice what I preach?
Additionally, before I can help anyone else help him or herself, I must
first be able to help myself. I must
also travel the path to self healing and awareness, also known as “human
flourishing (Dacher, 2006).” As health
and wellness professionals we must be able to honestly look within ourselves
for the answers to health, happiness, and wholeness, and encourage others to do
the same. I feel that I should also
mention the fact that integral healing is holistic, evolutionary, intentional,
person-centered, and dynamic, as Dacher has outlined (2006). Joshua Rosenthal is known for saying “health
is not a destination; it is a journey (2011).”
I think that quote sums up the path to a higher level of wellness. As our needs change, the care we require also
changes. And health professionals are
not exempt from this concept. For
example, as things in my life have changed (I recently gave birth to our little
girl, Melina), I have created goals for myself to get back into the same
physical shape I was in prior to my pregnancy.
Therefore, I must make a plan, and take action on that plan to work
toward the goal I have for myself: to be
able to run two miles in 15:30 or less.
The next question is, “how do I score my wellness
spiritually, physically, and psychologically?
In answer to this question, I will use a scale of one to ten; ten being
the highest level of satisfaction and one being the lowest. Let’s start with the spiritual aspect of my
wellbeing. I would rate my spiritual
wellbeing as a seven or eight. I believe
in God, and I see his presence in many things.
I have been blessed with a beautiful little girl and a husband who loves
and supports me. There is just so much
to be thankful for in my life. However,
there is still room for growth. I would
like to learn more about Jesus and his teachings. I would like to participate in a Bible study
and learn more about the Old and New Testaments. And I would like to take the time to teach
what I learned to my baby girl. These
goals do not sound like a lot, but they require time and dedication to make
them happen. Therefore, I ask
myself: “how can I make this
happen?” Well, the first idea that comes
to mind is going to church more regularly.
My church also offers a Bible study before church service on Sundays and
also on Wednesday evenings that I can attend.
Also, there are so many books available and websites at my disposal that
I can also use to learn more about the Old and New Testaments. And I can read children’s Bible stories to my
daughter as she grows. After six months
of implementing all or most of these strategies, I should be able to quote or
reference the various books of the Bible, and be able to relate parables to
everyday life.
From
a physical aspect, I am also very blessed.
I would rate my physical wellness as a seven or eight as well. As I mentioned, I recently gave birth to our
daughter about three weeks ago. In a
very short amount of time, I was able to return to my pre-pregnancy
weight. (I am extremely happy about that!) On the other hand, I have lost quite a bit of
physical strength and endurance. This
will need improvement. I know I will get
there, but I need to take my time to finish healing, and slowly work my way
back to my pre-pregnancy workout regimen.
Also, I want to be able to pass the Army’s Physical Training test (PT
test) with a minimum score of ninety in each of the three events. The three events are: push-ups, sit-ups, and a two mile run. Each of these events has a scoring system
that is specific to my gender and age. I
will need to train myself on each of the three events. I could start out training every other day
for a couple weeks, and then increase my time to two consecutive days of
training and then one day of rest and so on, until I reach my personal goal in
each event. Six months after giving
birth, I will be required to take one of these tests. My performance and the scoring of this PT
test will assess my progress in this facet of my overall wellbeing. Physical fitness is a must-have in the
Army. Therefore, after this PT test, I
will be required to complete another one six months later. This requirement will make long term physical
fitness easier to maintain.
And
lastly, how do I rate my psychological wellbeing? I would have to go with a seven or eight
again for this aspect of health and wellbeing as well. I think of myself as a mentally strong
person. I am able to multi-task, adapt
to changes relatively quickly, and in many cases, I am able to think “on my
feet.” These skills are important, in my
opinion. However, I do not feel that I
take enough time out of my day for myself.
I have flooded all of my free time with other tasks that I have placed
more importance on than my own quiet time.
This is especially true in the past few weeks since my daughter’s
birth. She is obviously my number one
priority. Therefore, I take the time to
drive to Pittsburgh everyday and visit her in the hospital. After that, I am still working on my school
studies, job searching, trying to keep the house in order, tending to the needs
of my father-in-law who recently moved into our house, cook healthy meals,
attend countless doctors’ appointments, and update relatives on the status of
Melina’s progress. As a result, there is
not much, if any, time left for me to just enjoy “the quiet.” I want to calm my mind down. I feel so bombarded at times. But talking to my husband does help me to
calm my mind down—a lot. I discussed
this predicament with him last night.
Together, we decided that it would be a good idea to start going to bed
an hour or so earlier than we have been.
We chose this course of action because we can have conversations, or
“pillow talk” without his dad listening in and commenting. This way, we can have some privacy without being
rude to his dad, and we can “catch up” with each other and talk about the day’s
events. My husband is truly my best
friend, and I love to talk and laugh with him.
Additionally, I have also decided that when my husband leaves for work
in the morning, and before my father-in-law wakes up, I will take some time to
do good things for myself. For example,
I can take a long shower or a bath, I can listen to Dacher’s meditative
practices that I was introduced to recently, and I can take time to pray. The best way to assess my progress in this
respect is to do another self evaluation in six months and see if I still find
myself at the same stress level. (I
never like to admit that I have stress in my life, so these self evaluations
are a “wake up call” for me.)
Integral
health and wellbeing addresses the mind, body, and spirit. All three of these areas must be given the
proper amount of attention in order to thrive and to continue to grow. I have given myself a rating of one to ten in
each subject. Within this self
assessment of my spiritual, physical, and psychological wellbeing, I have also
devised a plan for improvement in each facet of wellbeing, as well as a method
for assessing my progress six months later.
My intention is that by implementing my strategies for improvement, that
my next self assessment will receive higher scores.
References
Dacher,
E. S. (2006). Integral health: The path to human flourishing. Laguna
Beach, CA: Basic Health Publications,
Inc.
Rosenthal,
J. (2011). Integrative nutrition: Feed your hunger for health and happiness.
New York, NY: Greenleaf Book Group.
Hello Mariah! I absolutely loved your final post and assessment. Such an honest and thorough review of your current status on physical, psychological, and spiritual wellbeing. I would say you are doing outstanding for as busy as you remain and having just had a little bundle of joy. You seem to keep your goals measurable and achievable which I think is extremely important. It keeps things in check for you and prevents them from seeming out of control – which we know can happen “but quick” when you have a little one! You seem like such a strong woman and I have enjoyed your weekly blog posts as well as your discussion posts. They are knowledgeable, honest, and give us great insight into what you are experiencing in your life. It was great to “get to know you” throughout this term and wish you, Bocephus, your “mini farm”, your hubby, and Miss Melina the best of luck! You are welcome to keep in touch if you like – You can find me on Facebook (Emily Bowen Olds) or my email is emiolds@gmail.com.
ReplyDeleteEmi
Wow! Great final project. So personal, so REAL!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for being you. The bad thing about internet or online school is that you really can not meet your classmates. The great thing about this particular class is the BLOG...we have had the pleasure and opportunity to really meet you with your posts. Thanks again and the best of luck with everything you have in your mind and heart in doing.
Cary
Hello Mariah,
ReplyDeleteYour post was very personable and I enjoyed reading it.
I know all too well about driving back and forth to the hospital to see a child. I started listening to Pastor Prince CD's and also to MP3 recordings done by Louise Hay. This was my time for me. And by listening to these on the drive helped to make me even stronger.
I love your idea of going to bed earlier and having "pillow talk" time with your husband. It is so important for you two to stay connected like that.
I have five children and through the years lost myself a bit. From someone years ahead of you in the child rearing arena I would like to suggest that you never lose yourself. I always took care of myself spiritually and physically but I didn't take enough time to do the things that brought me joy just for myself. I will admit though that taking a long hot shower was about the only time I did have to myself those years and that did bring me joy!
Mariah,
ReplyDeleteI am so happy for you of the progress made within your journey of this course, I have notice your blogs seem more happier and confident, and that the fact that you have implemented plans, and goals to help maintain your currently lifestyle and frame of mind is just wonderful. Good luck to you.
Hey Mariah,
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on the birth of your baby girl! I admire the work that you have done within this course. You are truly an inspiration! I found it very easy to read your blog and at sometimes extremely relatable. Good luck to you as you make your journey, reaching for the goals that you have set in place for yourself.
Mallory